What
are the various stages that gay men usually go through
while coming out of the homosexual
closet?....Firstly
gay men may feel confused, then compare themselves to
other gay men, the tolerance stage is where men are
simply tolerating their sexuality without totally coming
out, then we have the acceptance stage, and finally
pride.
I
have a friend who is very promiscuos, obnoxiously loud,
and partys too much, I would hate to be this type of
gay?...This
is just an acting-out behavior all part of the coming
out, and usually lasting only 2 to 3 years, and has
little to nothing to do with gay identity. Hypnosis can
help with this problem.
Can I
use hypnosis to stop being gay?.....This
would be going against nature, and has had little
success. We have a specially designed mp3 session for
homosexuals, gay men who wish to come out of the closet
and feel proud of their gay sexuality. Many gay men need
more self esteem and confidence, especially when
confronted with a direct asociation towards their
sexuality, and also for gay dating,and meeting new
friends.
Can
I come out of the closet in one
day?...People
don't realize that coming out has predictable, observable
stages. When you become familiar with the stages, you can
learn to know which one other gay men are in too. Stages
do not necessarily occur in the same order. Gay men may
jump back and forth, in and out of each stage. or linger
in some as well. It may be years before some gay men move
on. Hypnosis for gay men can help speed up the
process.
I hate
heterosexuals for making me feel bad about my gay
sexuality?
The combination of
anger and pride impels you to become heavily,
passionately angry especially against homophobic men.
Maybe you would like to be involved in gay rights
organizations and gay pride marches. Gay men in the
forefront of certain marches are often predominately
those in the latest stages of coming out. At this stage
of integration, the "them and us" concept breaks down.
Gays men begin to understand that not all heterosexuals
are homophobes. Like older gay men, they can now relax
their militant stance and reintegrate themselves into
society. They understand that there are "good straights"
and "bad straights," that homophobia does not need to
dominate their life, and that they can relate to both
gays and straights without losing any
self-confidence.
Can I use
hypnosis
to stop being gay?
This
would be going against nature, and has had little
success. We have a specially designed mp3 session for
homosexuals, gay men who wish to come out of the closet
and feel proud of their gay sexuality. Many gay men need
more self esteem and confidence, especially when
confronted with a direct asociation towards their
sexuality, and also for gay dating,and meeting new
friends.
I am not ready to become fully
gay, but I really want to come out of the closet, what
can I do?
A hypnosis mp3 session
can help you to change your simple tolerance to accepting
yourself as gay, and discover a new sense of
identification and belonging to the gay community as a
whole. You may feel increasing anger at homophobic
segments of society, which is not unhealthy, while your
doubts and self-hatred that were once directed inward are
now turned outward at more deserving targets.
I like other men but I am not
a gay man, what help is there for me?
Seems like you have a
problem with identity. You maybe confused. you are not
pretending to be heterosexual, but your gay feelings are
completely unacceptable to you. This gay hypnosis mp3 can
help you. Once individuals recognize that a homosexual
nature does exist within them, they often become very
sensitive, and self-conscious. Pushing them too far in
this stage can cause too much psychological discomfort
and potentially keep them from moving on to the next
stage, so a self hypnosis mp3 can help.
I have a gay neighbour who has
dyed hair, piercings, tatoos, and wears pro gay t-shirts,
he delights in shocking others, kissing in public and
telling everyone about his homosexuality, to draw
attention, will hypnosis make me like him?
No, His rebellious
attitude will fade away soon enough, it´s similar to
a hetero adolescent in the teen phase, even though he may
have an older body, it´s still immaturity. the
hypnosis mp3 has been designed to promote enough sl
esteem, that the sexuality becomes a normal private,
personal theme.
